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IF YOU CAN READ THIS…THANK A TEACHER

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How many times have you driven down a street or highway and seen a bumper sticker with this phrase?  Likely most everyone has seen it at one time or another.  It is also true that many children learn to read from parents and family members as well. In fact, lately we have seen a great deal of negative press about public education and teachers. It is distressing for everyone. No matter what side of the argument makes the most sense to you, however, everyone can think of at least one teacher they want to thank today for making a difference their life.  Take a moment to conjure up the name, place and year of a teacher that was special for you. . . .

I can think of  several teachers who have made a significant impact on my life. School was a positive experience for me, my friends and my own children.  From Mrs. Moore in fourth grade to Mrs. Winter in high school journalism, I had many encouraging professional role models. However,  the one teacher who challenged my thinking the most was Mr. Lux, my eleventh grade accelerated English teacher.  He was at least 6’5” and weighed over 300 lbs.  His hands covered an entire sheet of loose leaf paper, and he wore large horn-rimmed glasses and a suit and tie every day. In those days, all men teachers wore suits and ties to school – – pretty impressive role models, don’t you think? Mr. Lux was firm, articulate and no-nonsense – – unless you listened carefully and caught a tongue-in-cheek comment every now and then.  He was also a scholar and he taught the brightest, highest SAT-scoring students in the school.  I felt honored to be selected to be in this special English class.

The day he recognized my oral defense of an essay assigned as homework, provided impetus for me, a 1960’s woman, to believe in myself.  He called on me often after that, scored my writing highly and made me feel very talented. I was a sparkling gem in English class in room 212 at Edwin Denby High School – – Motor City, USA – – and I will always remember Mr. Lux for empowering my thinking and recognizing what I could do well. I majored in English and Journalism in college, largely due to him, and have loved writing and speaking all of my life.

We want our children to see their strengths and talents. Our job, as teachers and caring adults, is to encourage and nurture those gifts.  No need to give false praise and rewards. Self-esteem is built upon the reality of achievement and success.  Our job is to actuate the potential in our kids. Let it shine and sparkle.

Who is a teacher that made a difference in your life? Write them a brief letter in the comment section.  The teacher, or a relative, or fellow-classmate might even see it!  I waited too long to write my letter to Mr. Lux. Sad, perhaps. Yet, I will always know that I put my pen to paper and told him how much his talent meant to me.  Enjoy the experience and thank you, Mr. Lux, wherever you are.

I BELIEVE IN YOU

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WELCOME TO I BELIEVE IN YOU!

Like the balloons on this page, it has taken me a couple of years to float back into a new and much different routine after leaving thirty + years as a teacher and a school principal in three states. As a teacher and a school principal my days were long and scheduled.

No mistake, I am loving the opportunities that lay in my path in the autumn of my life and feel blessed. Yet, a compelling urge to shout to the clouds the gems that I learned from the experiences that came my way about what it takes to grow a great kid has become very powerful. The lives of kids depend upon it. Every adult should be aware of what it takes to grow a great kid because it is not always intuitive. The proverbial instructions do not come attached to the umbilical cord.

During my career, I worked in schools that served students and families from communities that were in grave economic need. I also taught and lead schools that were in affluent neighborhoods . . . and many in between.  Throughout those years, one theme has always hung true and strong: HIGH EXPECTATIONS MAKE A DIFFERENCE. When we know and show our children that they can be successful, without exception, the results are remarkable.  In my new blog that will appear twice weekly, you will discover ideas, suggestions and action steps that adults can take to make a difference in the lives of young people. You can have a powerful impact on the future by starting with our most precious resource, our children.

I hope you will be a regular visitor and perhaps share your stories if you are so inclined. Together, we can build a better world – even if it is just one kid – your kid, your student, a relative, a neighbor – at a time.

“A hundred years from now it will not matter what my bank account was, the sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove, but the world may be different because I was important in the life of a child.”     ~ anonymous ~